Why why why why why does 'dominant personality' always equate to 'topping' in bed!? Why does being on the receiving end or simply being in the position of 'bottom' suddenly mean you have some kind of submissive personality!? I don't get it and I don't think I ever will. I don't begrudge people their fun, but honestly... it gets so tiring and irritating after a while.
People choose 'positions' based on what feels good. Believe it or not, sex isn't always some kind of power play! fkjdsalfjs GOD. Why does this bother me so much. If you ever want to push my buttons, this is evidently the best way to do it.